9. A piano, sex and love

Just as happens with a single piano key, so desire for the Other’s body does not necessarily have to serve some goal on any higher level, in order to give birth to rounded and beautiful moments. That is to say, sexual desire does not necessarily have to serve love. [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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1. On eros and mirrors

Not one of these side-effects of Eros matters at all. Because the Others available to us as our mirrors are countless, so countless will be our chances to experience breaking into fragmented reflections again and again. [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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2. The passage

And in this pause in time, full of silence, your hand becomes another hand. A new hand with another meaning, a totally new meaning that starts embracing what I call “your hand”, pushing it elsewhere, somewhere beyond beauty, charm, attraction or aesthetics. [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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3. Tastes of Now

In other words, from the perspective of each specific Now on our timeline, whole slices of our past and future times remain darkened because they do not need to be visible from this or that specific Now. [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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5. If

Yet, through our yearning and deep thirst for the Other, we think we have done something “wrong”. We shrink, we become much smaller. We take on our own backs the total and unbearable responsibility for events that are not produced by ourselves alone... [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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6. Two transparencies

...as if he and his image were drawings on two transparent sheets of gelatin, she attempts once more to put one on top of the other. Their outlines don’t match. Should she tear both the transparencies? Should she crumple one and throw it away? [Excerpt from NOTES FOR YOU]
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The sexual self and the power of the ancient wolf

A video that I use in the 2nd of a series of 4 autonomous lectures, in which I explore the broader topic of eros, love and sexual desire.
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A frog who insisted expecting a longtime forgotten kiss

The lecture was about the futile eternal expectance of the "Other" who may "save" us by her or his kiss, transforming us from ugly frogs into a beautiful prince or princess.
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Eros: the confetti hypothesis | #3: The Hereticals / subbed

In eros there is a figural element: an almost metaphysic sense of deep harmony and intimacy not justifiable by the how long and how much we know the Other. Moreover, to the Other’s touch we feel our body re-configured; the Other instills beauty and power onto every one of our bodies’ cells; and a sense...
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Eternal eros:is it possible? | #9: The Hereticals / subbed

In eros we enter an endless field of eternity, a paradise that seems never ending. However, maybe the non-existence of eternal eros and the fact that every eros has an end are very "normal" things, absolutely necessary to stay alive and able to form deep relationships of love?
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